See? It's a tried and true method. :3
Since you're asking all of this and want answers on what to do about dating at all, I can only assume you're considering not listening to your parents? I don't know how old you are, so I'm really trying not to egg you into being a total rebel. It depends on what you personally are comfortable with, and anyone you would potentially date. I can tell you when I was a teenager, I did know people in that exact situation who merely went on "dates" in a large group. Go out with friends, tend to hold hands with your date or whatever, maybe see a movie as a group and sit alone, that kind of stuff. If they felt really rebellious, maybe they went off on their own, if everyone was in the same general area (like a shopping center/area or something). More of hanging out and less of zomg serious getting dressed up for a date type business like happens in movies and tv. Most of my dates are like that a fair amount of the time anyway. The last boyfriend I had, we maybe went out to dinner a few times, but mostly just chilled and played video games or went to hang out with other people or whatever. We have mutual friends though, so I don't if that applies? (It only lasted a month and a half or two, anyway)
Since I'm a trouble maker, I would also consider their exact word choice. You could easily finagle or get around what they said based on interpretation and whatnot. Maybe they said no dating, but did they say no boyfriends? So you don't go out on dates with just the two of you, but he's still your boyfriend. Things like that. But I am in no way encouraging you to ignore your parents very strong and thought out wishes, not at all. :mrgreen:
It comes down to what you want to do and what any potential dates wants to do, and how you guys mesh and whatnot. If you were say, sixteen and a half, and both enjoyed one anothers company sooo much and wanted to be exclusive and whatnot, you could just make a commitment and then not really do much aside from talk and whatever (which isn't really that different than any other relationship lol), and then start "dating" for real when you hit 18.
This is starting to put the cart in front of the horse, so to speak, since you don't even know how he feels. XD It's good for future reference, though. You never know what might happen. Some other boy might ask you out tomorrow and snatch you up.
ETA: If you did happen to find someone you wanted to date in a long term fashion, you could speak to your parents about it. That would be something to think on.