Shizuki 10 Report post Posted September 28, 2011 Hi, I'm Shizuka, and I'm practically a newbie on DCW! Um...how do I start? Well, this topic is about relationships...I met this guy, and I like him. So, today, he just walked up to me, and did those guy eye things, like when a guy says hi to you with their eyes or something. We talk occasionally, well, actually, he always starts the conversation first. I wonder...how can I get out of my shell? It's hard because I am not a "sociable" person...and I like him...thanks! You can also share your relationships with anyone here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
detective1 3 Report post Posted September 28, 2011 Hmmm, really?.... not bad Have great time Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hopes 237 Report post Posted September 28, 2011 Wow, that's sweet. <3 This is an interesting topic... Actually, there's something on here called "The Lonely Heart's Club". It has the same basics as this I guess... *sigh* I'm horrible with relationships and love... When I'll ever find that someone? Probab;y never. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fluffy Ears 70 Report post Posted September 28, 2011 I am not a "sociable" person too and because of that. She's taken. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emiko Seiei 46 Report post Posted September 28, 2011 Well there's no real definite explanation on how to get out of one's "shell". You just gotta want to. The first step in change is to want to change. When I have a conversation, I just make sure to listen to every detail because later in the future when you bring it up he'll be surprised guys want to be listened to just as much as girls. ...well I hoped that helped i'm not very good at giving advice ^ ^;;...so don't get mad if this sounds weird Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tengaku squared 291 Report post Posted September 28, 2011 I lose track and my sanity if I have too many friends and other close relationships. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kim-Chan 41 Report post Posted September 29, 2011 Well I'm unsure how you'd get tout of your 'shell', it's really up to you to become more confident with talking to people.. I don't know what advice I'd give you for overcoming shyness. HOWEVER, I have to say this, it's very important, when you do get more social, make sure the way you act with that guy is different from other guys. Why? Because this is what nice people tend to do wrong, you're nice to the person you like, but it won't mean much to them if they see you nice to everyone, they'd assume that their just another person to you. So, basically, you gotta treat them differently, like make them feel a little more special. That's just what I think.. Anyway, as for my love life, it's complicated. I was stuck in a love triangle last year... This year just started so I dunno, but the guy I like and I have made progress ^^ We've gone from being strangers that kind just stare at each other to good friends. He's kinda weird &silly but on the inside he's sensitive and nice Awkward thing is that we both know that we both like each other but it's not really going anywhere. Probably because we both agree we are still rather young for dating and stuff. Or it's just awkward.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tengaku squared 291 Report post Posted September 29, 2011 So, basically, you gotta treat them differently, like make them feel a little more special. That's just what I think.. I find this untrue. But that's just what I think. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kim-Chan 41 Report post Posted September 29, 2011 I find this untrue. But that's just what I think. How so? And to be honest I never thought about it until I read about it in this one book Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sayomi 17 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 I'm not exactly a more sociable person either. I'm one of those socially awkward penguins xDDD And I'm not that great at explaining things either. But what I think is that you should just be yourself and talk to him normally. If he's the one initiating the conversations... maybe it's a good sign Talk to him about stuff you're interested in, try to find some things you have in common Or you could even recommend DC to him if he's the "anime type." Actually, just talk about anything that could start verrrrrry long discussions :3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Detective Rohit 38 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 I'm not exactly a more sociable person either. I'm one of those socially awkward penguins xDDD And I'm not that great at explaining things either. Same here..>.> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Moonlight Magician 98 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 You mean he winked(^_~)? Welcome here and enjoy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fluffy Ears 70 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 I confessed to the girl I like. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kim-Chan 41 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 I confessed to the girl I like. And how did that go...? Unless you don't want to talk about it, that's understandable.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fluffy Ears 70 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 And how did that go...? Unless you don't want to talk about it, that's understandable.. Last night our conversation was very awkward. ._. Then she said that she'll help me with me crush and then then then I was forced to confess. ._. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kim-Chan 41 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 Last night our conversation was very awkward. ._. Then she said that she'll help me with me crush and then then then I was forced to confess. ._. Ohh. I've had awkward converstaions like that before Not so fun DX Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fluffy Ears 70 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 Ohh. I've had awkward converstaions like that before Not so fun DX Yeah, It's not really funny. ._. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sayomi 17 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 Last night our conversation was very awkward. ._. Then she said that she'll help me with me crush and then then then I was forced to confess. ._. Ohh I know someone who was kinda in the same situation She liked him and she was talking to him about it and then he told her he knew who it was.... ehe... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fluffy Ears 70 Report post Posted September 30, 2011 Ohh I know someone who was kinda in the same situation She liked him and she was talking to him about it and then he told her he knew who it was.... ehe... :| I'm an idiot! -__- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lia. 45 Report post Posted October 1, 2011 I currently don't like-like anyone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vawli 43 Report post Posted October 1, 2011 Same here, I am not a "sociable" person and I like a guy too. I just wanted to say hi so many times but I chickened out because I thought it would be awkward but at the same time I keep regretting it when I miss the chance to say something. The first time I talked to him he did not know who I was(so awkward.) The second time I talked to him he got my name wrong so I felt so bad. Now I did not say anything. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kaitou Kid Legendary Thief 197 Report post Posted October 3, 2011 I have yet to find someone I like... And at the same time feel at ease with him... (except my ex which I don't want to be reminded of...) relationships are complicated... Anyways...shuu-chan... Gambatte!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Samantha 7 Report post Posted October 3, 2011 I did like this one boy back at my old school. I'd known him for.....a long time. But he likes this other girl and she likes him back, so I figured, what the heck. I'm not gonna make things complicated. I haven't seen him for a while, so I guess that's that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
